Consider Using A Christian Dating Service
Triston Huntsmin
I have many friends that remain single well into their
twenties, thirties and even forties. They are great individuals
who simply have not found someone that they are compatible with
yet. I have great sympathy for them and I have a huge desire
that each of them be in solid relationships that will
eventually lead to marriage. Several single friends have asked
my opinion about using a Christian dating service to help them
find potential mates.
As a licensed marriage and family therapist, it makes sense
that my single friends would come to me for advice about all
things relating to marriage or even the possibility of
marriage. They want to know if a Christian dating service is a
legitimate way to meet someone and if there are any strategies
they should be aware of as they attempt to meet someone special
this way.
When the questions about using Christian dating services began
coming to me I took a couple of weeks and really did some solid
research on the different options and organizations that were
available. I wanted to find out for myself what any Christian
dating service really had to offer and whether or not they were
building good reputations for actually helping people to meet
significant people.
I learned many things from researching Christian dating
services. One of the biggest things I learned is that a wide
variety of people use the Christian dating services for an even
wider variety of reasons. Therefore, I wanted to warn my friends
that not everyone they could meet through these methods was in
it for the same reasons. I didn't want to give my friends any
sense of false hope about the success rates for some of the
Christian dating services I looked at. There were a couple of
really reputable Christian dating services that are doing well
and helping people to find that someone special.
I think one of the most important things to do before you sign
up for a membership with a Christian dating service is to
really ask yourself what your expectations are from doing this.
Be realistic about the fact that as good as a Christian dating
service might be, they may not be perfect or find you the
perfect match within weeks. So be willing to take your time and
to wait out the results of using a Christian dating service. I
am by no means against trying them out, but I hate to see
people get disappointed when they aren't walking the wedding
aisle within a month or two.
About The Author: Triston Huntsmin, a marriage and family
therapist, tries to caution his single friends about having
realistic expectations of a Christian dating service. See
http://www.allchristiandatingservice.info for more.
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