Should I Date Someone Who Is Married?
Nocita Carter
Good question. But the answer is no! Absolutely not, unless
you’re looking for trouble in your relationship. Because
there’s bound to be problems later on down the line for you and
the person who you’re thinking about dating who is married.
You’re probably wondering, why not take the chance and go for
it! You’re a person that likes challenges. Well a challenge
you’ll get and then some. So why bother taking the risk if
there is a possibility that you may have problems later on down
the line. You say, what future problems could there be? Well you
may run into some or all of these problems:
1) The spouse of the married person you’re dating catches you
out on a date when you least expect it! This could be very
embarrassing for the both of you. How’d you like the spouse of
the person you’re currently dating, to have an angry
confrontation in front of the both of you in a public place
that you may be at the time. The angry spouse may not only be
verbally confrontational, but, may get physical with you as
well! This would not be good for either of you nor the person’s
spouse.
2) Your relatives or friends may catch you and your date at a
restaurant or a movie together. How would you explain this to
them or your spouse? This would be an awkward situation for the
both of you.
3) You or your date are at each others home while the spouse is
away on a business trip or at work. You get very comfortable in
your date’s home and the telephone rings while they’re in the
kitchen cooking dinner. You make the mistake of picking up the
telephone and low an behold your date’s spouse is on the phone
wondering why you answered they’re telephone. Are you going to
be able to explain yourself? Probably not!
4) You decided to purchase flowers and other miscellaneous
gifts for your date because you like him or her and are trying
to make a good impression. You forgot and used the joint credit
card that you have with your spouse. Your wife or husband just
happened to get home early from work one day and they went to
the mailbox instead of you. Guess what? They got the credit
card statement out of the mailbox that shows the charges you
made for those gifts for your date. You’re confronted by your
spouse who now has evidence that you’ve been cheating on them.
5) You decide to let your boyfriend who is also married borrow
your candy apple red 2006 Chevrolet Corvette Convertible, to
run some errands he has before your evening date. Your husband
is away on a business trip. Your license plate reads 4MYWIFE,
and you received your new shiny sports car from your husband on
your birthday two months ago. Just so happen, your spouse got
back from his business trip early and decided that he would
surprise you. As he turned into the driveway of your home, your
boyfriend was exiting your driveway at the same time your spouse
arrived. Your spouse was furious to see another man driving the
vehicle he just recently purchased for you. Your boyfriend sped
out of your driveway when he saw that it was your husband and
crashed into an oncoming vehicle. You got busted and not only
did your spouse catch you, but now, you have to deal with the
accident that your boyfriend was in!
So, see how dating someone who is married is not a good idea.
This could create lots of problems for not only for the two of
you, but the people who are in a relationship with you. Your
relationship could also have a negative impact on your children
and other family members as well. The best policy is just don’t
do it!
About The Author: Nocita Carter is a writer and web designer
that creates websites providing informative tips on various
subject matter including dating tips at
http://www.mydating-tips.com
and personal finance tips on your
personal finances at http://www.personal-finance-tips-for-you.com
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