Finding Mr Or Miss Right!
Lance Beggs

Are you currently searching for that special someone? Your
soulmate? Mr or Miss Right?

Would you like to know where to find them?

Don’t worry! I’m not going to set you up with some of my
friends (sorry Johnno), or give you contact details for the
local pick-up joint, or internet dating service.

But as someone who is sharing an incredibly loving and
passionate relationship with my beautiful wife Helen, perhaps I
can offer some help. (Let’s hope Helen reads that bit!!)

So here are my thoughts below. If you understand these points
and take the appropriate actions, I believe you stand a VERY
good chance of having your own “love of your life!”

MASSIVELY IMPORTANT POINT:

Ladies, you cannot and will not find Mr Right. Instead, become
Miss Right and you will attract Mr Right.

Gentleman, you cannot and will not find Miss Right. Instead,
become Mr Right and you will attract Miss Right.

Let me explain. We don’t find anyone. We attract people who are
a match for whoever we currently are.

If you’re currently not attracting the kind of person you want
in your life, perhaps it’s because you’re not the kind of
person they’re attracted to? So if you want to attract your
perfect match, become someone who is desirable. And then this
person will come to you.

Your ability to influence and change others is limited. If you
attempt to find the person of your dreams and make them like
you, then you’re in for a long and difficult journey. However
if you work on improving yourself, then you stand a much better
chance of success.

So how do you become this person? How do you become Mr or Miss
Right, in order to attract your soulmate?

For starters, why not work on these three areas:

(1) Learn to be happy.

Realise that your happiness does not depend on having this
relationship. There is a saying, "Happiness is enhanced by
others but does not depend upon others."

If you’re not already happy, then a relationship will not
provide you with what you’re missing. If you're already happy,
then a good relationship will build on that happiness. So if
you seek happiness through a relationship, you will not find
it.

You need to get rid of the idea of finding happiness "out
there", in your partner, or in the relationship that you share.
Happiness is found within yourself, and nowhere else.

So firstly, in order to become Mr or Miss Right, work on
becoming happy.

(2) Learn to love yourself.

You can’t have a great relationship until you’re a person
capable of giving and receiving love unconditionally. And the
first part of achieving this is to learn to love yourself. A
relationship is about giving, not receiving. How can you give
love to someone if you have none within? How can you properly
love someone else if you can't even love yourself? It’s
impossible.

Learn to love yourself. Accept yourself for the perfect divine
creation that you are.

(3) Learn to love life.

Stop trying to find that person who will complete you; who will
bring joy, love, excitement and passion to your life; who will
help you “live happily ever after”.

Instead, accept responsibility for creating the life of your
dreams. Bring joy, love, excitement and passion to your own
life. Live happily ever after anyway. Laugh, play and enjoy
yourself. Learn, grow and live with passion in everything that
you do.

If you’re happy, and you love yourself, and you love life then
you will have so much more to give to others. You’ll have
become an exceptional person. Your life will be great. And
you’ll attract not only many great friendships, but also
perhaps that someone special you’re so desperately searching
for right now.

The answer to what you’re seeking is not within someone else,
but rather it’s within you. It is your own attitudes and
beliefs about yourself. It is a belief in love. It is a belief
that you are worthy of love. It is a belief that you are a
good, strong, confident and happy person. It is a belief that
you have something great to share with someone else.

Once you have this self belief, or self love, then you have
become Mr or Miss Right. Then and only then will you attract a
relationship that is truly magical.

The hardest part is deciding to make it happen. After that it’s
easy. Don’t become overwhelmed by the task ahead. Allow yourself
to grow little by little, each and every day. Trust in the
process, and enjoy it.

It’s your choice. Mr or Miss Right are found within. Choose to
become that person now. Be happy. Love yourself. And love life.
It’s worth the effort.

Lance Beggs.

Copyright Lance Beggs. All Rights Reserved.

About The Author: Lance Beggs is the author of "How to be Happy
Now". His mission is to help others live a life of meaning, love
and happiness! Subscribe to his FREE ezine at
http://www.HowToBeHappyNow.com


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