How To Say You're Sorry And Make It Mean Something
Gregg Hall
Ever been in trouble with your wife or girlfriend? Of course you have,
if you have known each other any time at all! We can't help it, as guys
we always do something or say something without thinking that upsets
our significant other. Saying you are sorry can get you of the doghouse
when you've done this but only if she really believes you are sincere
and remorseful. If she thinks that you are just apologizing to take
advantage of the incredible make up sex, you will be in hotter water
than you were before you started!
One of the things that shows sincerity and remorse better than anything
is action. What I mean by that is making a conscious effort not to
repeat the same offense again. If you find yourself apologizing time
and time again for the same offense not only does it show a lack of
remorse but also shows that you really don't care about what upset her.
If you know the exact reason she is upset, then apologize for that
exact thing. Just saying you are sorry without knowing the reason is
not only insincere but also sets you up for repeating it because you
don't know what it is you need to avoid doing or saying. If you really
have no idea, humble yourself and ask her what you did to upset her,
tell her you're an idiot for nor realizing but you really want to know
because you don't want to do it again.
Don't ever apologize by phone if you can do it in person and never do
it with a message or an email. Again, this kind of cold and removed
apology shows a lack of sincerity and doesn't demonstrate that you are
truly sorry for what you did. Take the time and effort to meet
personally so that you can show how sorry you are and try to make
amends.
If you want to go down in flames, go ahead and blame her for the
situation while you are apologizing. I know that a lot of times the
problem may have been contributed to by her, but the issue here is your
apology. If you have a decent woman, she will reciprocate with an
apology as well as long as you do it the right way. The only way to
have your apology accepted as being sincere is to accept total
responsibility.
Don't allow too much time to pass either, if you apologize promptly it
will be better accepted than if you wait and she thinks you are simply
apologizing to get back in her good graces as an afterthought. On the
other hand, if you are having an argument and you try to apologize in
the heat of the moment it is likely to fall on deaf ears because she
will not hear what you are trying to convey. A nice gift can smooth
things over too.
Gregg Hall is an author living in Navarre Florida. Find more about this
and sexy lingerie at
http://www.sexiestlingerieplus.com
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