How to Become Super-Attractive to Prospects, Customers and
Business Partners
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By Sonia Stringer
I have been studying people and "success" for over 16 years. I
have heard all sorts of theories, models and ideas on ways to
help people create more of what they want in their lives.
There is one I have come across often amongst the many dusty
books, worn out tapes and workshop weekends. I have heard it
described in many different ways, although the essence remains
the same.
You may know it. It's called the Law Of Attraction.
The Law of Attraction states (in my loose definition) that we
attract people, situations and opportunities to us. Life doesn't
necessarily happen randomly, but that at some level, we are
influencing the experiences and results of our lives.
I have to tell you, when I first heard this, I was pretty
doubtful.
However, in working with the principles of Attraction, I myself
have experienced some interesting changes and quite unexplainable
occurrences in my life.
My life has indeed become more "effortless". Although I still
definitely put in some hours in my business--people and
opportunities "show up" on a regular basis. I think about what I
want to create, and it happens, quite often all on its own.
My clients, most of them leaders in network marketing companies,
have also been experiencing some quite phenomenal (and otherwise
unexplainable) growth in their business as they have worked with
and applied these principles.
As they have become "more attractive", they start sponsoring more
serious and "attractive" people to their own business.
They tell me they set goals, and then the phone rings or someone
shows up unexpectedly who can help them achieve them. They go on
vacation and sponsor more people than if they stayed at home.
Weird, but exciting, don't you think?
It's kind of like electricity; I can't explain how it works, but
I know how to use it.
There seems to be 2 ways people can build a network marketing
business.
1. Work Really Hard.
This is the approach many people take. You basically learn some
business strategies and come up with a plan, then work like heck
until something sticks. Certainly nothing wrong with this, just
harder than it has to be.
2. Become Super Attractive.
This approach includes the above, but also focuses on what
changes YOU can make to become more "attractive" to people,
prospects and opportunities. Rather than working super hard,
success starts to find you.
Don't get me wrong, you still have to take a lot of action, even
if you are "attractive". It just pays off more. Think "magnet in
motion" vs "pushing a large rock up Everest". You get the
picture.
Perhaps you would like to experiment with these ideas yourself?
They go like this:
"10 Steps To Become Super-Attractive"
1. Have A Lot of Fun - No Matter What
Sometimes building a business can feel a little "heavy". We can
start to take ourselves just a little too seriously. Lighten up!
Having a ball while building your business will make you
extremely attractive to prospects. Make it a goal to radically
enjoy every day, not just create results.
2. Develop A Tight Support Team
People who have a lot of support take more risks and have more
confidence. They feel loved and nurtured and have a lot to give
to other people. Your prospects will pick up on that--everyone
wants to have that kind of support in their own lives. Build a
strong team of people who are behind you every step of the way
and be in touch with them regularly.
3. Tell the Truth--Always.
Nothing beats the truth. Leaders who are confident enough to
speak the truth, under promise and be very direct are highly
attractive. You will find people trust and respond to you
immediately. The most attractive leaders are vulnerable and
"real" with their prospects and their own leaders. Don't wear a
mask--be yourself.
4. Stop Judging--Yourself and Others
Have high standards AND be as unconditional as possible with
yourself and your team. Don't beat yourself up or criticize
yourself--you always do the best you can, even when you don't.
The same goes for the people on your team. Accept people for who
they are and make them right, no matter what. Leaders who can be
this loving and accepting are highly attractive to others.
5. Want a Lot For People
How much do you really want for others? Even though this is
business, don't be afraid to get in your heart. When a leader is
genuinely motivated by a desire to really help someone (vs
another pay check) people feel it. Want a lot for people and tell
them what you want for them, daily.
6. Treat Yourself Like Gold
Praise yourself and celebrate your wins, always. Take excellent
care of yourself and your physical, emotional and mental health.
Take care of your own needs, first, so that you have more to give
to others. When you honor yourself this way, others will too.
7. Use Your Money Extremely Wisely
Become very profitable in your business and create some $$
reserves. Educate yourself on how to use and leverage your money.
Have "more than enough", even if that means making changes in
your budget or your spending habits. Become a great business
model to others, not just someone who is "getting by".
8. Enjoy a Great Life--Now!
Don't wait until "some day" to enjoy the things that are most
important to you. Re-orient your life around your priorities. Do
what you love, as much as you can. Spend time with the people
that mean the most. Everyone wants to be able to do more of this.
By doing it now, you become a magnet to others.
9. Be Grateful For What You Have
When you are grateful for and truly appreciate what you already
have, you will attract more to you.
10. Be Bold and Develop Yourself Radically
Invest in the most important part of your business-- you! Take
risks, embrace change and get outside your comfort zone. When you
make changes in You, your external world will catch up. Develop
and grow yourself radically and you will attract others who are
ready to do the same!
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