10 Important Tips For Your Blind Date
Ron Zvagelsky
If you are being hooked up for a blind date or meeting a person
on a date for the first time, there are always some tips that
help keep you (men) stay stable during the night. The following
includes 10 blind date tips with a hint of humor to help you
cope with the information.
10. Plan for a night far away
While you may plan to go on a date to the movies and have a
quiet date, the blind date you are hooked up with may end up
being a partier and want to go dancing or something else so
planning ahead is necessary.
9. Be cautious of the wordplay you use
Men should be listening to the women more then having the women
listen to the men. However, what you say will lay a first
impression on her and to quote a famous comedian, Chris Rock,
"A girl will decide within the first 30 seconds whether or not
she will sleep with you."
8. Put your attention on her
Men really do need to stop talking, shut their pie-hole and
listen to what the women have to say on the date. "Ohh, I got a
luxurious boat out in California and I make $200,000 a year
working for; really doesn't flatter the ladies. To get a girl
interested in you, you have to listen to what she is saying.
Also discuss issues like work, family, friends, and various
other more personal topics. Regardless, you should never make
her feel uncomfortable about anything because this is a
friendly occasion.
7. No Interrogations
If you wish to do well on your date then you have to have great
conversations with her. Never ask her questions that will have
one of the following three responses: yes, no, I don't know.
Ask her questions which will start a good conversation and get
a nice answer that interests you, and show your interest.
6. Make her your spotlight
Never let your eyes leave her (and I don't mean her double
decker, I'm talking about eye contact). You want to make sure
you don't "check out" other women while with her or spend time
with other friends that may be there or on your phone.
5. Don't try to show off
Whatever you do, don't go out of your way to flash your gold
chains or brag about your luxurious items. While living the
life may be a turn on, it can make the date go downhill very
fast as she may be thinking, "What a selfish jerk". Also, do
not show off all your money (unless your date is with a gold
digger or a prostitute). If you're so rich then either use
debit or bills under 100. Don't purposely go out of your way
for her to see something valuable that you own.
4. Be Aware of What You May Get
When going on a blind date, you never know what you will get.
While you may be wishing to get a real hot piece of tail at the
end of the night, or a great relationship started, you may end
up with a huge girl who honks and snorts the night away. Never
expect the best, just cope with what you get. The date is for
only one night, not a lifetime.
3. Watch out for a Controlling or Crazy Girl/Guy
If either party is rather psychotic, demanding, or aggressive
then leaving may be the right thing to do, and do so
immediately. It is not worth risking being taking advantage of
or left in a dead end relationship. Also try to fend away from
those in a questionable relationship at the time.
2. Plan Your Escape
Make sure you have a plan on how to get out of the date if it
either goes downhill, you don't like the person or you really
regret doing it.
1. Be The Leader
The final tip is for you to be the leader. Men should always
take the leadership role so they are proven to be more
masculine. Whether it's asking for a dance, being the first to
start a conversation, or initiating a kiss, it is all stuff
that shows your manly side by the end of the night.
About The Author: Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business
Administration from the University of Southern California. Use
http://PlanJam.com to find dating
advice and fun things to do.
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